They say (whoever they are/is) the grief stricken should wait at least a year before making any life-changing decisions. I agree with that thought as long as finances are not in play that would hasten someone’s decision to say, downsize and sell the family home.
My time these past few months has been eaten up with listing and selling the home James and I purchased about 4 years ago. We only had a short time here together and were just getting into a rhythm which frankly, was true of our marriage as well. We’d started to work out the kinks and make peace with the minor annoyances that crop up in any committed relationship (emphasis on committed!).
About a year ago my sister Mary and I made a pinky swear to move to a smallish town in Virginia once we sold our homes. My house has sold almost immediately, and I am left swirling with even more decisions such as finding an apartment while I house hunt, where to store a house full of belongings and a million small details in between.
Mary and her husband live in rural Tennessee and may have a long slog getting to the home sale finish line. My journey has started. UGH! I have decidedly mixed emotions about leaving New England for the Shenandoah Valley. My heart is here with my friends, but I also miss being near my immediate family and look forward to more time with them.
I’ve already learned a butt-ful in a short amount of time about the ins and (mostly) outs of planning a move and so will on occasion, share a few tips I hope others find useful. Perhaps like me, there are late night trawlers of Google search on topics such as: “Should I get a storage unit that is climate controlled or not spend the extra dough?
“Cinder block or metal storage unit walls – which is better?”
I’m also leaving an area where I could easily call 40 people to drop over for a dance party, to move to a town where I know exactly one person – my Virginia realtor. This should make for good blog fodder, right?
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You are always amazing. I can’t wait to read the next installment. Safe travels!
I can say family is so important to have close by. Without my family I don’t think I would have been able to do what I did in the year and half since Jerry passed. Safe journey Martha❤️
I may have to start a blog about how bad it sucks when your bestie moves hours away. And, maybe the first post would include how brave I think she is.
Love you Fire. XO
What a journey so far, huh?! I wish you the best in your travels and am excited for new doors to open for you. Keep blogging so we can travel along with you!! xoxo
I’ve been missing your blogs but knew life was getting in the way. I can’t wait to read and hear all about your new adventures and your take on starting this new life. Go get ‘em Louise and remember Thelma is just a call (or 9 hour drive away)!